tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post116513172192635070..comments2023-06-26T06:29:10.055-04:00Comments on Tout de Suite Buttercup!: Making Sad MixesButtercuphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10799238720510105530noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165252252414338722006-12-04T12:10:00.000-05:002006-12-04T12:10:00.000-05:00"I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Raitt, album ..."I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Raitt, album Luck of the Draw. <BR/><BR/>Chorus: <I>Cause I can't make you love me if you don't<BR/>You can't make your heart feel something it won't<BR/>Here in the dark, in these final hours<BR/>I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power<BR/>But you won't, no you won't<BR/>'Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't</I><BR/><BR/>I listened to this song over and over after my Ex left me. And it helped me. Because it helped me remember that despite anything I did, I couldn't MAKE him love me. I knew I did everything I could, but it just wasn't there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165243658223352472006-12-04T09:47:00.000-05:002006-12-04T09:47:00.000-05:00It's totally ok for you to wallow every once in a ...It's totally ok for you to wallow every once in a while. Sometimes you have to get deep down before you can climb back up again. <BR/><BR/>I'm only now just getting to the point where, 13 years later, I can hear Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton and not remember what used to be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165209216786588432006-12-04T00:13:00.000-05:002006-12-04T00:13:00.000-05:00Gravelly, That's another sad one. Of course, so m...Gravelly, That's another sad one. Of course, so much of it is what a particular song makes someone feel. Music is so individual.<BR/><BR/>Candyminx - Thanks for the props and I hope you're right that I will feel better in a few weeks. I think I'll definitely feel better once I'm in my new place and not dredging through all of these memories. <BR/><BR/>Flattering that you say you've been enjoying reading the blog. I feel like this must be the most boring thing ever for people to read; especially since it's probably depressing. But, anyway, I appreciate you reading and commenting!!<BR/><BR/>When I get to my new place I most definitely will post pictures. I am looking forward to the new place. I think the universe wanted to do something good for me.Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10799238720510105530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165169552374279122006-12-03T13:12:00.000-05:002006-12-03T13:12:00.000-05:00YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I am so excited about your acc...YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>I am so excited about your accomplishments this week, my god, you did good gorl!!!<BR/><BR/>Your new apartment with the gorgeous bedroom sounds so fantastic...I am so happy for you.<BR/><BR/>I hope the room mate is a decent kind person. Sensible. That is the basic best...and if she is more, well then even better!!!! As long as she is polite and reasonable you've got a lot to look forward to, but if she is nice and cool...you will have way more peace than you did with that, that....guy. No comment.<BR/><BR/>:)<BR/><BR/>I think you are terrific for making the sad tmusic mixes and getting as much music burned onto your own for your future use. Go ahead, record as many of his cd's as possible. I think that is at least something you will take and use and enjoy from your past with him<BR/><BR/>Oh I just know you are going to feel okay in a couple of weeks. I hope you will post some photos of your deck and view on your blog...I am loving living vacariously through you. You are living the "Cosmo gorl" experience...in fact, make sure you buy a Cosmopolitan and Vanity Fair after you move into your bedroom and apartment.<BR/><BR/>How is the kitchen?<BR/><BR/>I know you feel like shit, but you are processing all of this so well. In the big picture, I am glad you didn't have to deal with Raj around your old apartment while you del with all the moviing and packing.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Six days till you move whoo HOOO!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165162359137968352006-12-03T11:12:00.000-05:002006-12-03T11:12:00.000-05:00"My Immortal", can't think of the group, it is the..."My Immortal", can't think of the group, it is the same one that sings "You never call me when you are sober".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165158136995829262006-12-03T10:02:00.000-05:002006-12-03T10:02:00.000-05:00Starshine - I used to love Annie Lennox. "Walking...Starshine - I used to love Annie Lennox. "Walking on Broken Glass" definitely fits, but thankfully it reminds me of happier times (oddly).<BR/><BR/>Leanne - "One more Day" is really sad!Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10799238720510105530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165154634252574642006-12-03T09:03:00.000-05:002006-12-03T09:03:00.000-05:00Well, if you really want to cry your eyes out in a...Well, if you really want to cry your eyes out in a flushing-refreshing kind of way, Diamond Rio's "One More Day" is a definite tearjerker. There are quite a few more, Edwin McCain comes to mind as does John Mayer, but Diamond Rio would be the CD I'd grab in your situation.<BR/><BR/>Hugs!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12428110232570798723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22920054.post-1165134063025858722006-12-03T03:21:00.000-05:002006-12-03T03:21:00.000-05:00The song "Walking on Broken Glass" by Annie Lennox...The song "Walking on Broken Glass" by Annie Lennox has a deceptively upbeat tempo with some of the saddest and most eloquent lyrics.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com